This should really be titled, “Husband – JUST READ THIS AND QUIT NAGGING ME.” (I love you, bug :)!) But I figured I’d write for a more general audience, so here you go – things you people who’ve never had long hair need to know about my lifestyle, because sometimes it just doesn’t seem to get through.
1. I need more shampoo than you.
Your hair is like ONE INCH long. At most. In some places it’s shorter than your eyebrow hair. You don’t shampoo your eyebrows, do you? Why should you need to shampoo that part of your scalp at all? But even so, for the sake of this discussion let’s assume your hair is one inch long, and mine is ten inches long. I will need to use – you guessed it – TEN TIMES AS MUCH shampoo as you to get the same amount of coverage on my hair. So don’t be telling me I’m using too much shampoo. I’m using twice as much shampoo as you. Three times at most. So really, YOU are the one using too much shampoo.
2. I should not shampoo every day.
The thing about short hair is that it has not been on your head long. ALL of your hair on your entire head has been there for less time than the bit of hair that’s two inches away from my head. I did extensive, thorough research on this subject (thank you, Answers.com) and have determined that hair grows at a rate of about half an inch per month. That means ALL YOUR HAIR has been around a maximum of, say, three or four months. Mine? These ends have been with me for two YEARS. So while you can happily destroy your hair by shampooing away replenishing scalp oils every single day because you’re not even going to see that hair half a year from now, I NEED that oil to maintain this mane I hope will still be treating me right two years down the road. I don’t want some kind of split-end mutiny on my hands. Do you even know what split ends are? Can you get a split end in three months?
This applies to hair dye too, by the way. When I go to dye my hair, I’ve got to worry about how it’s going to affect my look two years down the road. How old am I going to be? What will I be doing with my life? Will this affect any future job I could try to get? Because some colors are easier to dye over than others. I’m just lucky I can go back to brown whenever I have to – I salute all you brave blondes out there.
3. Your bad haircut is as nothing compared to my bad haircut.
Again, if you get a bad haircut, the absolute longest you have to worry about it is three months. And I’m pretty sure in two weeks it’s going to settle in just fine and you can get it fixed, no problem. You can move on with your life. Two weeks isn’t even long enough to really notice the roots under my dye job. When my hairstylist messes up, she chops off three extra INCHES, not millimeters – and we’ve already discussed that it can take months to recover from that kind of error.
Now, you may be saying, “But you still have a lot of hair to keep cutting and get the shape right.” NO. If I wanted to take another three inches off my hair, I would have done it the FIRST time. Now I have to wait another SIX MONTHS to get it even to the point where it SHOULD HAVE BEEN WHEN I WENT IN. That’s HALF A FREAKING YEAR. If I want to cut more off and reshape it, I basically have to resign myself to an entirely different hairstyle and look. Maybe I don’t even have the right clothes or earrings to pull off that mop. I could have to invest in a whole new wardrobe. So don’t tell me your awful haircut is worse than mine.
4. My hair takes a lot longer than yours to get pretty every day.
If I want to do my hair and make it look actually pretty, it takes me an hour. I have to do it in layers, one row at a time, getting each section right before I move on to the next part. This is a complicated work of art I’m sculpting, here. I’ve watched you short-haired people “doing your hair.” It takes like ten minutes. It doesn’t even involve any kind of iron. So if I say I need to get ready to go out somewhere, you can assume that I need to get my hair done, and that’s going to add an hour to whatever time you were estimating for yourself. And that’s assuming you’re also doing your makeup like I am. No? No makeup? Add another half hour. Being beautiful takes WORK, bitch.
5. A ponytail is a legitimate hairstyle.
I don’t want to take an hour out of every single day to get my hair looking gorgeous. You’ll be lucky if you get that once a week. Once a week for me is about equivalent to all the time you’ve racked up over the week doing your hair daily, anyway. If I don’t do my hair up nice, though, it’s utterly hideous because I also have curly hair (and that is just a whole other rant for later). It’s not only ugly, it gets in my way. I can put up with it getting in my way if it’s pretty, but if it’s going to be hideous too then that is just unacceptable. So if I shove my hair up in a ponytail all day long, DO NOT make fun of me and my childish-looking hairstyle. It’s convenient and comfortable. End of discussion.
I hope you’ve learned something.